I’m Kat!

Welcome to my digital thinkspace! I appreciate you stopping by & I really hope you can find a connection within my shared experiences.

If you love a good, open & honest conversation about change, ageing, rediscovering yourself and peri/menopause, then you’ll feel right at home here! I know there are so many amazing humans silently struggling & I would love to share my own narrative to help you understand you are not alone.

My background is primary school educator for 16 years, a mum of 2 perfectly imperfect kids, and married for 31 years. I am a daughter, sister, aunty, wife, cousin, friend, kick-ass photographer and people lover.

Hey yo! Not gonna lie, I’m kinda wise now that I have lived a half century. Come hang out with me while I blather on about my past experiences and current thoughts about life, love, and the uncomfortable stuff.

my sea of sentiments & shenanigans

  • imprint

    Later this year, we are traveling to the UK. Exciting right? Unbelievable that we are finally booked in and the big ticket items have been paid for already and now we just have to plan the route and sites to see. Easy? Sure. But actually though…rather hard. My dear friend has said to me ‘you…


  • grief

    Grief is a heavy weighted blanket, swathed around your shoulders, impeding your movements and tangling your thoughts. It is a dense fog shrouding your vision with variegated shades grey, turning the simple mundane tasks into mindless distant shadowed memories. It flavours your soul with a residue of hollowness, dispelling all breath leaving you inhaling loss…


  • discarded

    When my kids were little, they were obsessed with their Tamagotchi. They loved the fact they had to care for, feed, change and nap a digital entity or it would die. So much so that whilst I was attending university, I had to take them during the day while they were at school, and look…


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