the happy cactus

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  • critic

    Mate. Lemme tell you that lately my inner critic has been so nasty, unsupportive and downright negative. Constantly shovelling verbal abuse down my throat with each waking moment and at times, during the night when I get up to pee. Silent images and thoughts that continue to barrage my subconscious into submission has been exhausting…

    thekatmarsh

    12th Feb 2024
    emotional wellbeing, emotional-intelligence, happiness, healing
    acceptance, blogging, brain, ejournal, growth, inner-critic, mentalhealth, self-care
  • weeds

    During my daily walk I have with our beautiful dog Winston, I noticed there are loads of weeds sprouting up from the pavement which seem to create a beautiful tree line the entire length of journey. Each weed cluster seems to vary in height, thickness, species and how close they grow together. Now, I don’t…

    thekatmarsh

    14th Dec 2023
    acceptance, community, emotional wellbeing, emotional-intelligence, happiness, healing, personal story
  • shame

    In 1989, there was this song by Johnny Diesel and The Injectors called Crying Shame. It’s a catchy tune sung with a twangy throaty Aussie drawl coupled with simple lyrics and a repetitive chorus. The song depicts how he struggles with a mistake that only he can blame himself for. No one else to blame,…

    thekatmarsh

    4th Nov 2023
    acceptance, childhood trauma, emotional wellbeing, emotional-intelligence, happiness, self-regulation
    acceptance, bad-behaviours, boundaries, dysfunction, emotional-intelligence, family, growth, love, mentalhealth, self-awareness, self-regulation, shame vs guilt
  • adrift

    Look. I’m not gonna lie. These last six months have been a tad tumultuous and I have felt like I have been adrift at sea floating aimlessly on a huge wave of never-ending emotions. Each day brings a new assault of big feelings that sometimes gently cascade down my body and other days like a…

    thekatmarsh

    23rd Sep 2023
    ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, burnout, emotional wellbeing, happiness, healing, menopause, positive-ageing, pro-ageing, rest, social-connection, Uncategorized
    fatigue, growth, menopause, mentalhealth, pro-ageing, rest, self-care, self-love, stress, trauma, wellbeing
  • exercise

    To me, the word exercise conjures up men jogging in sweat soaked singlets and short shorts; you know the kind with built in undies that don’t quite cover their meat and two veg. It also sparks a memory of Jane Fonda workout videos that were meticulously followed by lycra-clad thighs and a one piece leotard…

    thekatmarsh

    19th Sep 2023
    ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, burnout, emotional wellbeing, happiness, healing, positive-ageing, pro-ageing, strength & mobility
    ageing-strong, body-positive, exercise, future-proof, growth, mentalhealth, pro-ageing, self-care, strength & mobility
  • loadbearing

    Going through life alone is not ideal. However, going through life with friends and you feel alone is somewhat harder. When you think that you are the only one with troubles or suffering, then that is a mental load that becomes so hard to carry. Being surrounded by a community of listeners, even if you…

    thekatmarsh

    7th Sep 2023
    ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, community, emotional wellbeing, happiness, positive-ageing, pro-ageing, social-connection
    acceptance, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, community, connection, growth, happiness, love, mentalhealth, pro-ageing, self-care
  • baggage

    Of late, I have been analysing and scrutinising my life thus far. Dissecting moments and events that were painted with the brush strokes of sadness, loss and despair. Certain events in my life that were tarnished and tainted by death or destruction have always been pushed down deep because that was how it was presented…

    thekatmarsh

    5th Sep 2023
    community, emotional wellbeing, happiness, healing, motherhood, peoplepleasing, positive-ageing, pro-ageing, social-connection
    baggage, changing, communication, community, family, growth, growth-mindset, happiness, mentalhealth, pro-ageing, self-care, social-connection
  • happiness

    Happiness can manifest in various forms and more often than not, is unique for each person. It might be seen as a genuine smile lighting up a face, eyes sparkling with contentment and a body that carries itself with confidence and a spring in your step. It’s reflected in relaxed body language, a carefree demeanour,…

    thekatmarsh

    29th Aug 2023
    ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, emotional wellbeing, happiness, positive-ageing, pro-ageing
    acceptance, ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, growth, happiness, love, mentalhealth, pro-ageing, self-care
  • maintenance

    Throughout my deep dive journey on how to optimise my next chapter in life as a marvellous middle-aged mofo, I have come across much of the same information regurgitating the same themes. Here is what I have found…it all leads to the maintenance of our body, in particular, movement, sleep and gut-health. They are separate…

    thekatmarsh

    6th Aug 2023
    acceptance, ageing, ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, emotional wellbeing, healing, menopause, positive-ageing, rest, strength & mobility
    acceptance, ageing, ageing-happy, ageing-healthy, ageing-strong, growth, love, pro-ageing, rest, self-care
  • pursuit

    Just like the moon and the sun who are constantly pursuing each other yet never somehow able to shorten the distance between the two, I viewed getting old as the same. Both the sun and moon know the distance will never be reduced and they are content with the knowledge of that. Age happened to…

    thekatmarsh

    21st Jul 2023
    acceptance, ageing, ageing-strong, body-positive, emotional wellbeing, healing, positive-ageing, pro-ageing, reassuring, rest, writing
    acceptance, ageing, ageing-strong, body-positive, growth, love, pro-ageing, self-care, women
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